(the video is not for sale, and is meant for personal use only) This version is arranged by Bart Vandereet. Songwriter Frank Poelman, vocals on some tracks/ lead guitar Be good to yourself.Right from the heart, a ballad about love, together with music one of the strongest forces that deliver enough hope for this world to keep turning. Sitting around giving in to the depression on your couch will only worsen the sadness and helplessness. Get what you need for you first, then worry about finding someone to share your life with.įind a local support group, go out with friends, see what some co-workers like to go out and do and join in! It's about getting out of the house and just doing something. Do not base the success of your life on whether you have a lover or not. And that person has to be even more special to deal with us who have depression and other related chemical disorders. Just having a body to warm your bed, or sparks that fly before slipping under the sheets may be fun, but it's not what makes things last.īeing able to really talk and share interests goes way beyond the basic first attraction we have to people. There has to be trust, communication and common ground. You have to be the best you you can be, otherwise you'll never be any good to a partner that will bring what you need into a relationship. We feel we can't function without a partner. Because our chemicals are off, or we aren't getting the talk therapy we need, we tend to become very co-dependent on others. Us depression types also seem to wade in the co-dependency pool far more than the average person out there. a shiny over there gets our attention and off we go.Īside from the celestial reasons here, your story reads like so many I've glanced at here. #Cant get her out of mymind full#We rams tend to "ram" full speed into things, full of passion and then suddenly. #Cant get her out of mymind how to#I just need help, i don't know how to forget.įirst thing I picked up on your post is that you're both Aries. I don't know what im trying to get out of writing this, maybe someone to just pay attention, maybe to just get it out, I really don't know. I can't deal with the thoughts of her and it's driving me to do bad things to myself. She isn't in my life anymore, but she won't leave my mind. I can't talk to new girls because they just aren't her. Every single moment, she is in my thoughts, I have vivid dreams about her, everything reminds me of her, I have no interest in anything that doesn't involve her. And we talked on and off until about 2 weeks ago, when she told me she just wants no contact with me, and i agreed that was probably the healthiest thing to do, seeing as I already had very bad depression and self harming issues. We tried to remain good friends with eachother for a while, took about a 2 week break from talking to eachother when she randomly hit me up, and we hit it off again, like the old spark flared up, but then it quickly went to s***. She dumped me on april 2nd, 4 days after my birthday and 3 days before hers. I shouldn't have been surprised when she dumped me, i saw it happening sometime soon, but I was still shocked when it happened. We had a great relationship, that just began dwindling down after I revealed some secrets of my past to her that made her, i guess less interested. The only person I have ever truly cared about. We knew eachother for a few years beforehand, but developed feelings of love for eachother over the time. Well, I was in a relationship with this girl, we were only dating for 3 months(just shy of 4) when she dumped me through a text message. Hey everyone, I don't have anyone to talk to about anything so I figure i can talk to some of you, since not saying anything has never really helped.
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